Grand Army
445 Dean St
Cocktails and oysters. Intimate space with a fireplace. If you're feeling fancy after brunch, this is the move. Weekend oyster happy hour runs 2–4 PM so you might catch the tail end.
Get directionsRJ&MADDI
NEW YORK CITY
AUGUST 7 - 9
Friday, August 7th
Yankees Game
Pre-Game
Billy's
856 River Ave, Bronx, NY 10451
~5:15 PM
Not reserved — just a casual meetup spot to hang out before the game.
FIRST PITCH7:05 PM
Yankee Stadium
1 E 161st St, Bronx, NY 10451
90 deep. Seating TBD.Game ends ~10:00–10:30 PM
After the Game
We’ve got an early morning, but for those who want to keep the night going… Take the 4/B/D south — you’re in Manhattan in 25 minutes.
Saturday, August 8th
The Wedding
Ceremony + Brunch
Bacchus Bistro
409 Atlantic Ave, Brooklyn, NY 11217
10:30 AM – 3:00 PM
10:30
Guests arrive, welcome drinks
11:00
Ceremony starts
11:30
Cocktail hour
12:30
Lunch, drinks, mingling, speeches
3:00
Send-off
Barista & drinks available throughout
Cocktail attire.
Saturday 3:00 – 7:00 PM
The Gap
You just watched two people get married over French toast and mimosas. Now you’ve got a few hours before the real party starts. Here’s what we’d do.
Keep the buzz going — grab a drink nearby
Elsa
136 Atlantic Ave
Chic cocktail bar right on Atlantic Ave, literally steps from Bacchus. Laidback but polished. Great drinks.
Get directionsBar Tabac
128 Smith St
French bistro with a big sidewalk patio. Perfect for a glass of wine in the sun and people-watching on Smith Street. Very Cobble Hill.
Get directionsClover Club
210 Smith St
One of Brooklyn's best cocktail bars. Pre-Prohibition style cocktails in a beautiful space. Worth the walk if you care about a good drink.
Get directionsLOOSIE’S
145 BOWERY
SATURDAY AUGUST 8TH
7:00 PM – 10:30 PM
We are taking it back to Studio 54 —
think glitz and glam, and disco.
At 11 PM the club opens to the public. Wedding guests get wristbands and are welcome to stay — or head upstairs to The Highlight Room.
Take the elevator up.
THE HIGHLIGHT ROOM
16TH FLOOR ROOFTOP
11:00 PM – LATE
Cocktails, skyline views, calm vibes to close out the night. Lush hanging greenery, a central olive tree, paper lanterns, chandeliers, and an outdoor terrace with views of the Empire State Building and the bridges.
Basement to rooftop. Same building.
We live in a New York apartment. We don’t need a salad bowl. But if you’re the type who wants to give something, here’s a couple options.
You being there is the gift. Everything else is just extra.
August 7 – 9
Where to Stay
We’ve set aside room blocks at a few hotels near the action. Book early — NYC in August fills up fast.
The Moxy
Lower East SideBold, playful, and right in the middle of everything. Steps from the best bars and restaurants downtown. Right next to Loosie’s.
moxy-hotels.marriott.comComing SoonDetails coming in early April
Get DirectionsThe Beekman
Financial DistrictHistoric luxury in the Financial District. A landmark building with one of the most stunning atriums in the city.
thebeekman.comComing SoonDetails coming in early April
Get DirectionsHotel TBD
ManhattanDetails coming soon. We’re locking in one more option to give you a range of price points.
Coming Soon
FAQ
How do I RSVP?
RSVP via the Paperless Post text message you received. Please respond by June 1, 2026 so we can finalize headcounts with our venues. If you didn't get one, text RJ or Madison directly (numbers below).
Wait, is this actually a wedding?
Yes. A real, legal, actual wedding. It just happens to start with a Yankees game and end in a nightclub basement. We're doing it our way.
What should I wear?
Yankees Game: Yankees gear, duh. Bacchus Bistro: Cocktail attire. No, men, you do not have to wear a tie. Loosie's Nightclub: We want you to have fun with it! Think sparkles, bright colors, 70s disco but make it modern.
Can I bring a plus-one?
If your invitation says plus-one, absolutely. If it doesn't, we love you but the venues have capacity limits. Please don't put us in an awkward spot.
Is there an open bar?
Please join us at Bacchus Bistro at 10:30 AM for welcome drinks before the ceremony at 11:00 AM. There will be an open bar as well as coffee, tea, and soda available until 3 PM. At Loosie's, open bar from 7:00–10:30 PM. After that, you're on your own.
Where should I stay?
Lower Manhattan or Brooklyn is ideal. The Moxy LES is literally at 145 Bowery (same building as Loosie's and The Highlight Room). Otherwise, anywhere near the F/G/B/D/4 trains will get you everywhere you need to go.
I can only make one event — which one?
The Saturday brunch ceremony. That's the wedding. Everything else is the party around it. But if you can only make the party... we get it.
How do I get to Yankee Stadium?
Take the 4, B, or D train to 161st St–Yankee Stadium. It's about 30 minutes from Midtown. Don't drive — parking is a nightmare and you'll want to drink.
Help! I've never used the subway — how should I get around?
Lyft and Ubers are abundant, but if you want to try the trains, download CityMapper from the App Store. It will show you all the available trains and buses to get you to your location! MTA trains and buses use tap to pay for entry.